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Monogram Etiquette

A traditional monogram is three letters with the first name initial on the left, the last name initial in the middle, and the middle name initial on the right. Men often choose to do three letters in their proper order (first, middle, last) in the same size and same font.

Two-letter monograms are also beautiful and may be used if there is no middle name or just for style. Two-letter monograms may also be used for a couple using both first name initials.

For a wedding, we often create a monogram with the new last name initial in the middle, the wife's first name initial on the left and the husband's first name initial on the right. With custom bedding and towels for a couple, we often see just the wife's monogram which is more traditional in the South, but many people also choose to do a joint monogram with husband and wife's first name initials.

For a unique monogram such as one with four letters, please contact us. We can create something unique for you.

Note - if you'd like a monogram style that see on the site but is not shown as an option - call us! 

Monogram Timing

We strive to complete your monogram order within 10-14 days of receipt assuming the item is in stock. During busy holiday times, our turn around times may be longer. If you have any questions regarding turn around times or need a rush delivery, please contact us by phone.


Bespoke Home will ship your items via UPS ground unless otherwise specified. In the 48 contiguous states, this means you will usually receive your item 5-7 business days after we have shipped it. We can rush your shipment for an extra shipping charge as shown on the checkout page. Bespoke Home will ship to Hawaii and Alaska for additional charge. Please call to inquire. Bespoke Home does not ship internationally.

Return Policy

For items that are NOT personalized, Bespoke Home will accept a return for a refund or credit within 14 days of purchase. Please contact us for details. We do not accept returns on personalized items. Please confirm spelling, thread color and monogram style prior to placing your order. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact us as we are happy to assist by phone!

Privacy Policy

Bespoke Home will not use your personal information for anything other than processing your payment and shipping your order. We do not disclose your information to any third 

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